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What Do I Do With This New Year?

man's back as he gazes at the horizon wondering what he'll face in this new year

THERE’S SOMETHING SCARY  and surreal about entering a new year when your life is in upheaval—kind of like looking ahead into a vast unknown. You don’t know if you want to step out into it, but you know you have no choice. Time propels you forward. Whether you choose to take that step or not, you will be there. The numbers will change. The ball will fall.  You will be in a new year. The old will be left behind

For some of us, we may breathe a sigh of relief at the new beginning. Others of us approach the change with dread. The unknowns may even frighten us.

For me, after losing my husband, and for many of you in the middle of crisis, we face this new year with trepidation. What do I do with this new year? What will it look like? What decisions will I have to make? How will I make them?

No one knows what 2025 will look like because no one has been there. What do we do with this new year?

Be Still and Know that I am God

Yesterday, as I busied myself with small tasks left over from Christmas and thought about the start of a new year, I felt this nagging reminder.  “You’re forgetting something, Linda.”

“Huh?”

“If you’re unsettled, where do you go for answers?”

“To you, Lord.  I pray to you throughout the day. I know you’re with me.”

“But where do you go for answers? For guidance? For reassurance?”

“Your Word, Lord. And I’ve neglected to spend time in your Word, haven’t I.”

So once again, I’m reminded of Psalm 46:10, “Be still and know that I am God”– a truth I know all too well, but still often neglect to implement in my daily life. Spending intentional time with God in prayer and in His Word provides the peace needed to face the unexpected.

As we walk into 2025 and wonder “what do I do with this new year? God wants us to know his promise of Jeremiah 29:11, “’I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future’” (Jeremiah 29:11).

But I believe He first wants us to be still, quieting our hearts and minds in His presence, so we can “Wait for the Lord, be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord.” (Psalm 27:14).

So as 2024 fades into the rear view mirror and 2025 approaches, I encourage you to spend a day with God in prayer and in His Word. Seek Him first before launching out into the unknowns of this New Year. Let Him give you His strength and confidence for facing the year ahead.

As you seek His direction in the various areas of your life, the following is an outline with scriptures you can use as a vehicle to help in your prayer time with Him.

What Do I Do With This New Year?

  1. What are my personal goals?

What are the practical steps for achieving them?

 

“And my God will meet all your needs according to his glorious riches in Christ Jesus.” Phil. 4:19

  1. What are my marriage and relationship goals?

What are the practical steps for achieving them?

 

“Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.” Eph. 5:21

III. What are my family goals?

What are the practical steps for achieving them?

 

“Love is patient; love is kind. It does not envy; it does not boast; it is not proud. It is not rude; it is not self-seeking; it is not easily angered; it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” I Cor. 13:4-7

  1. What are my career goal?:

What are the practical steps for achieving them?

 

“Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and your plans will succeed.” Prov. 16:3

  1. What are my goals for any changes in attitude?

What are the practical steps for achieving them?

 

“…be made new in the attitude of your minds, and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.” Eph. 4:23-24

  1. What are my goals for serving God and others?

What are the practical steps for achieving them?

 

“And do not forget to do good and to share with others, for with such sacrifices God is pleased.” Heb. 13:16

VII. What goals do I have for my spiritual growth?

What are the practical steps for achieving them?

 

“And we pray this in order that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and may please him in every way, bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God, being strengthened with all power according to His glorious might so that you may have great endurance and patience and joyfully giving thanks to the Father…” Col. 1:10-11

 

If, as 2025 approaches, your marriage is in trouble and you are asking, “what do I do with this New Year?”, my book, Fighting for Your Marriage while Separated, might provide welcome guidance as you navigate the road ahead.

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